How To Stop A Breakup

The only downside to falling in love with that special someone is the possibility of that relationship going bad, and leading to a breakup.  Often the first steps to stopping a break up include things NOT to do as well as things you NEED to do. Initially, we’ll explore behaviors you should adopt, then we’ll dive into some of those behaviors you’ll want to avoid.

What To Do:

Practice The Three C’s – Calm, Cool & Collected

Often, if they are honest with themselves, people know when a breakup is coming and are able to prepare themselves emotionally for it, but in the rare cases where it is a complete surprise you need to be able to do all that you can to contain yourself from outbursts.  You do not want the last impression you leave with someone to be that you have some anger management or emotional issues.  This is only the first pass and reconciliation can occur anytime in the near future.

Give It To Them

Often the best things in life come to you when you are helping others get what they want.    Often, while you’d prefer to stop a breakup, it’s best to go along with it temporarily. You may want to consider how it will happen, unpleasant as that prospect is. Calmly agree with the person that this is the right thing for both of you, and that you yourself have been feeling this may be the course of action that you wanted to pursue. Although you might be upset right now, you should realize that this is ultimately in your best interest. The other person will immediately begin to wonder why you were thinking a break up was necessary. It is only human nature.

T W Jackson, a relationship expert, has produced an ebook called The Magic of Making Up that offers more in-depth advice. This resource has many positive tips, including some solid hints about stopping a break up and winning back your former partner.   You can get this invaluable resource here: How To Stop A Breakup

Things NOT To Do To Stop A Breakup :

Harrassing Phone Calls or Emails

Regardless of how you receive the news that the other person no longer wants to be in a relationship, lay off the text messaging.  You know what I am talking about, the messages that constantly want to know why or a total confession of true, everlasting love.  Those messages to the parents, the friends, the roommate, the relatives trying to rally support behind your case to keep that person involved with you.  This is terrorism, and you are only moments away from a court date with the restraining order as a prize.  This will not stop a breakup, but only confirm that they should have gotten out a long time ago.  And realize this: their family is wondering why they even started to date you, not pushing them to reconnect with you again.

Drunken Dialing

Just another catchphrase from the relationship shaman T W Jackson, author of the best selling ebook “The Magic of Making Up”.  We all know what this is, and we all have done it.  You attempt to get out and get your mind off things and before you know it, you have had one too many drinks and are starting to drool.  Now that you have your liquid courage, you in all your brilliance think: NOW is the time to call and back her win!  No, no, NO!  This will make you look like a complete idiot and cause the other person to subscribe to a phone number that is unlisted.

Although these ideas were written from a humorous standpoint, they hold some truth.  If you have fallen victim to any of the Things NOT To Do, and missed all The Things to DO, do not fret.  Assistance is available, and solutions can be found.  Stop by and grab your own issue of The Magic of Making Up:  Stop The Split

Frequently, a breakup can be a very traumatic experience because love deals with the human heart.  Therefore, it is extremely important to get the help and support you need to help stop a breakup, and get you through this trying time.  Time is the greatest emotional healer of them all, and lots of people will be holding you in their thoughts.

A new website at www.relationshipsimproved.com was recently published by Jennifer Clark for people struggling with different aspects of dating, marriage, sex, or divorce.  Please visit us for additional resources to help improve your relationships.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. I turned to T ‘Dub’ Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.

T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up“. And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.