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They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder.  If your girlfriend is now your ex, you probably understand the truth of that statement.  If you could only get a second chance, you’d show her how much you love her.  You can learn more about getting your ex back here.

How do you go about getting your ex girlfriend back?  It depends on why you broke up.  Understand that and you’ll know which approach to use.

There are two main reasons for breaking up that we’ll look at here.  The first is that you wronged your girlfriend in some way.  Perhaps you cheated on her or were too controlling and she got fed up.

A second big reason relationships end is because of relationship drift.  She just isn’t that into you anymore.  Maybe she got bored or started to feel unappreciated and unloved.  She lost interest in you as a lover over time.

So what do you do to get her back?  Well, if you wronged your girl, if let’s say you cheated on her and she gave you the boot, then you need to regain her trust and repair the damage that you caused.  So the way to do this is with a Smart Apology.  Not just any apology, but a deep, powerful apology that can start to repair the damage you caused in minutes.  You can learn more about getting your ex back in 3 steps specifics here.

A smart apology has several steps to it.  But the thing is you don’t even say you’re sorry til the third or fourth step.  First, you fess up to what you did.  You don’t try to avoid blame, you take responsibility.  Then you let her vent, and get things off her chest.  You just listen and don’t try to argue.

If you can do those two things before you apologize, you are halfway home to restoring her trust and making her feel heard and understood.  Too many guys just keep saying they are sorry til they are blue in the face and it makes no difference.   A Smart Apology will impact your ex girlfriend emotionally.

What if she left because she isn’t into you anymore?  Relationship drift?  Then you need to follow a different approach, as an apology isn’t the answer.  You can find out more about this in a free course here.  Getting your ex back involves a lot of relationship intelligence, but this is a good way to start the process.  Get your free course on Get Your Ex Back In Hours here.

For a simple, down to earth step by step plan in getting your ex girlfriend back successfully, check out “The Magic Of Making Up“.