Breakups happen, we all know that. What most of us don’t realise is that it needn’t be the end if you so wish. Most splits can be stopped in their tracks, and you could easily get your wife back.

I got myself a plan when I was dumped. Without a plan I think we are more or less destined to stay dumped.

The first thing I done was to give them a bit of space. No chasing at all. No texting. No calling and absolutely no stalking or kidnapping.

I simply did not want to let her see me as desperate and needy. I’m a man and men don’t do that kind of stuff!

I took some time out and got myself mentally prepared. I knew that falling into despair and then depression would lead to longer term problems, maybe serious long term problems.

I did a bit of socializing and got out and about with my friends. I knew that my ex would get news of me being out and having a good time. I also knew she would be a little bit jealous.

Doesn’t matter who dumped who, if she saw you out on a date there’s every chance the green eyed monster would surface. We simply can’t help having a bit of jealousy.

My next move was to call her when I knew she was out and leave a message on her voice mail. It had to be left on her voice mail for a reason.

I planted in that message a little psychological hook and she took the bait like a big mouthed bass.

If you wanna get ur ex back you gotta employ every trick in the book

In the message I put a curiosity hook. I knew she was going to be so curious it would eat her up and she’d have to call back.

Within a day or two she had indeed called me back. Part one of my plan was a success. In the bag so to speak.

OK, she was convinced that she had made first contact, not me. Her mind erased the fact that I’d left a message and she responded. She could only remember her getting in touch with me.

It was plain sailing after this. She thought she’d made the contact and got us back together. Psychological mind games in action there. And I’m not going to remind her otherwise. Don’t you just love it when a plan comes together?

I got my wife back using these tactics as part of a killer step by step system that’s worked on thousands of other people