When you are the dumped half of a partnership it can be painful. Strangely not physical pain but pain nonetheless. And boy is that type of pain painful.

You make your mind up to win her back, but how are you gonna manage that one?

You need a game plan that works! Without a game plan you may as well forget it. Adios sweet love!

The burning question is where do you go for a plan like that? Well fortunately there’s many men like us who have split and got back together.

We copy their moves and methods to put together a battle plan. This may come at a hefty price! Well, not expensive but not free either.

I surfed the net and happened upon a plan, which, I might add, I was convinced was going to be next to useless.

Turns out it wasn’t too bad after all. A lot of it was just wasted on me as there were bits that I thought were just filler.

But there are some great sections in it. Not least the part about using psychological mind games to get your ex back.  Now you’re talking my language!

There was a part before any of this though about getting my head together (very useful for me) before even attempting anything else.

It was great for me as I was in bits. I can slug it out with the biggest of guys but break my heart and I’m crying like a new born.

I put the psychological mumbo jumbo into action and left a message on her voice mail. The message was laced with something that I hoped would make her mega curious.

And boy did it work out well. She was on the phone to me within the day. The best was I never once asked her to call back. The power of curiosity!

I continued to do what the plan suggested. Making moves at suggested times for a few weeks. Voila, it worked a treat. Almost like there was no breakup.

With an idiots guide to breakups, that ran me about the same as a really cheap date, I managed to get my wife back. Quite unbelievable, but no regrets or complaints from me!