If you’ve recently split with your wife or girlfriend, and it matters not who dumped who. You might have come to the conclusion you want her back.

If you can follow instructions like I did when I used these 5 steps to get my wife back you will put yourself in a much better position to do that. To get her back.

Step 1 – I wanted a plan of action to help me. A game plan if you like. I did an awful lot of surfing to find the info I needed.

All roads kept pointing me to two particular ready made guides that definitely looked the part. But would they deliver?

I bought both and one was utter crap, the other “The Magic of Making Up” was ok. I say ok ’cause for me it was full of too much waffle. The good bits were very good though.

Step 2 – I was an emotional train wreck so I heeded the books advice and took a bit of time to get myself in a much stronger emotional state.

I did exactly what the guide suggested and after a while I was feeling much better emotionally. I was ready to get her back.

Step 3 – I went with part of the guide that involved some psychological mind games. This section was one of the eye openers for me.

This particular psychological trick involved leaving her a message with a few choice phrases in that would (hopefully) rouse her curiosity. She returned the call within the day, even though I never asked her to.

Step 4 – Next was another psychological move that saw me play her favorite song in the background if she phoned.

After the first time she called she started to call quite often, always the song in the background. She never put it together that I had manipulated her into calling, she believed she had started the make up process.

Step 5 – A couple of weeks went by and she phoned me quite a few times. So I thought it’s time for the next move, ask her out for coffee.

She accepted and the rest was a doddle for me. Coffee went on to become a meal, which went on to become a full “date”. Which then went on to her staying over occasionally.

Which all ended up in her staying over more often than not. Which ended up with me getting my ex back. Total time taken, about 6 to 8 weeks.