I’m sure right about now you are feeling a bit messed up. In fact that’s probably a huge understatement if you’re anything like me.

I was absolutely wrecked when my wife just up and left. We’d been married six years and bang! She ups and leaves.

I can’t speak for you but I didn’t think there was anything wrong. Obviously I misjudged that one.

I decided to get my wife back. She was my soulmate and I was determined to make it work this time with no mistakes and take nothing for granted.

I tried a few calls and texts and sounded sheepish on the phone but that just made her more distanced.

I gave up any contact for a few weeks as it seemed to be driving her further away. And that was not my intention.

At this point I was at a loss. I didn’t have a clue what to do here.

I thought the only course of action was counselling, but I thought the last thing she would do was to come along with me.

Something struck me as I was deleting the numerous spam mail in my inbox.

Some of the stuff the spammers try to shove down our throats was fairly unbelievable.

I won’t linger on spam but it dawned on me that if you can get all this stuff there may well be info on the net to help me get my ex back.

After loads of searching through crap I settled on 2 systems at about $40 apiece that promised to get my wife back.

One was pretty poor in my view and the other had a bit too much filler for my liking but it had potential. Especially the section on psychological mind games. My kind of stuff!

I won’t go in depth into it but I knew after step 1 that she was coming back to me. And it was such a simple trick it was unbelievable.

Step one of the system had me leaving a message and thanking her and agreeing the split was right and that I had a lot of good things going on right now.

What this message served to do was arouse her curiosity. And we know what they say about curiosity and cats? Well it works just as well with wives, ex wifes to be more precise.

Within 24 hours or so she was on the phone to me wanting to know everything that was going on. She was so curious to know what was happening in my life.

It was here that I realised she still had feelings and that if I did things right she would be back before long. I followed the system to the letter and she was back within a month or two.

I took my time and played it cool. I was in control and though it could have been quicker it took about six weeks to get my wife back. Though it happened, it seemed all too easy.