Your ex dumped you and you want them back.  So you’ve called and made a powerful apology about what you did wrong.  Now what do you say to get them to give you another chance? You can learn more about making up with your ex girlfriend here.

A good first thing to realize is that each break up is different.  You can’t make a blanket rule about what to say or do.  You have to feel it out with your ex.

Let’s say that you wronged your mate and were too controlling and jealous.  You have apologized powerfully to them and they have at least listened to your apology.  They seem to be open to you again.  Now what?  If you are too pushy they will think you haven’t really changed, won’t they?

So you ask for a second chance.  You say something natural.  “Will you give me a second chance?”  That is simple and normal.  Where the skill comes in is realizing the ball is in their court now.  Let them have the ball and take the time they need to consider your request.

Every ex and every situation is different.  Asking someone to take you back whom you hurt badly enough to make them leave you is a big deal.  Can you understand that?  This is not some small thing.  You have created strong negative feelings in your ex.  This is why they left you.  Asking them to take you back may seem like a small or obvious or necessary thing to you, but put yourself in their shoes.  (Go here for a complete course on How To Get Love Relationship Advice)

Your ex doesn’t want to make a mistake here.  They don’t want to take you back and then have you hurt them again.

The wise thing to do is to let them have control of the reconnect.  Ask them to give you a second chance and feel the situation out.  If they seem unsure and seem to need time to think about it, don’t be pushy.  Ask if you can check in with them tomorrow.  If they seem more willing, you can ask to come talk about it with them now.

Your job is to make a sincere apology and then ask them to take you back.  That’s your part.  Then give them control, feel them out, let them be in charge of when and how to take you back.  You can get a complete system for Get Your Ex Back In Hours here.

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