Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

Perhaps you’ve heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mindset. You know the kind of thinking that believes, “if I can’t have it, neither can you.” It’s a way of negating someone else’s happiness by bringing them down to their inadequacy. It sometimes gets shown by a colleague or family member who doesn’t like or discourages you from reaching for a higher goal or stretching beyond things that are usually the norm for a culture. We’ve all been there.

It is similar with tribal mindset. The tribe is used to help each other and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Every person has an explicitly defined and extremely important role and function. If you desired to reach beyond (as is our nature as human beings) you literally risked the safety of the tribe. You are taught: “I cannot expand beyond what my tribe needs of me, otherwise I’d be cast out and experience certain death”. You would be exiled without food or water and no other tribe for hundreds of miles.

However, you are wired to create. Your inherent nature is to go beyond, express, want, and manifest. Then reach for another fun project or dream to fulfill. I have read that prior to reaching 5 years old, they have been told the word ‘No’ over 60,000 times! It would seem that our nature and our culture are in conflict with one another.

It is a small wonder conflicting belief constructs, critical inner dialogue and fear of success bring us down from time to time. It has been stamped into our subconscious. The psychological phenomena is called cognitive dissonance. It is like interference in your mind when you have many conflicting ideas at the same time. This dissonance becomes detrimental and desires a solution. It gets solved in one of two ways. Either by falling back on old, known beliefs, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to reach for a new level. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your outlook with great life coaching.

It’s a small wonder with the programs we’ve adopted that it can feel so difficult to create any effective change. The truth is, it’s not your fault. Don’t blame yourself and heap more negativity on yourself. You’re not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are supremely rewarding and fulfilling past your wildest dreams! Imagine someone who has every quality you have ever desired in a partner.

It’s not your fault, but you do have a responsibility to grab your power back. You have the ability to decide who you are and control that. Your word is creative. And even more powerfully, your mental monologue coupled with emotion are creative and attractive. Glare the limiting programming in the face and boldly choose a different possibility for yourself. You are meant to thrive and create. You have the support of the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful with the discovery of the Law of Attraction.